How many girls…?
The answer to this
question is simple. It is not one girl …or two…they must be three
the ones you need to find to keep a constant communication with.
We imagine you must be thinking we am crazy … you probably think: “I
cannot even get one and she wants me to get three!!!!”
Many of you are
having problems to contact with them, but we want you to know it is
pretty normal that you go through this stage where you feel
frustrated and disappointed because all you find are
scammers. It is
a stage all those who are looking for a Russian girl need to get
over to be able to face what comes next. Our capacity of enduring
and trusting in our chances are being tested. So when you feel sad,
you need to endure because the paradise is waiting for you.
Our advice is not
crazy. We will explain you the reason. When you focus your attention
to only one girl what happens is that you will only be watching one
unique reality, you will only see what she offers you, who is, by
the way, far away from you, who is a person you do not really know…
you will have problems to identify the sensations she causes in you.
You will end up being weak because the loneliness you face leads you
to give your feelings to the only chance you got. This sound stupid,
but if any of you was in a pseudo-relationship with one of these
girls will understand human mind tends to focus the thoughts and
feelings to only one direction if it’s not protected by the presence
of more option. Therefore, in this first stage it is necessary, we
would say vital, not to give your illusion and hopes to only one
option, because that means you are surrender to defeat.
Our mind is a
rational mind, it means it needs of other options to be able to
compare between those ones. To give yourself to one option means to
block the need our mind has to make comparisons. That means our
criteria are the product of a relational fact. Everything is
relative and depends on the compared facts. It means the mind has
problems to deny two real options; we will always be tempted to keep
one of both.
So why you should
have three options, when having two is enough?
Well, very simple
my dear virtual gladiators, it is necessary because you are not
moving around a real environment. What could be right in real world,
in the virtual world could not. Realize you are in an unreal
reality, where our imagination becomes our worst enemy, we already
told you that imagination has its priority in our elective
intuition, our capacity of election depends on our personal
situation, our loneliness, our need of company.
To be with two
girls at the same time is not enough to keep our integrity secure.
When you are in front of the computer, without knowing, we are
offering our weakness to the other person. The difference is that
when you have only one option you focus all your attention,
strength, will, time and thoughts to make that possible relationship
work, but when you have many options of possible relationships you
try to avoid those things that could make you suffer and fell for
the wrong person.
When you are with
two Russian girls and one of them leaves you, our mind focuses
immediately in the other option we have. Do not matter if the option
is safe or not, we will focus on that one, because is the only one
left. It is funny to see when this happens, even if the person is
not sure about any option he had, as soon as one options leaves him,
immediately gets convinced about the option left, when before, he
was not convinced by that one at all. You become dependent of that
option just not to feel you failed. Our confidence cannot admit we
failed, in a word, you feel frustration, and you try to compensate
it not to feel depressed. It is very common to listen comments like:
“Yes, I left her, I was not sure about her… I have the other girl
now…” when reality is so different from it: one girl left you and
you feel content with the one left because you are afraid of
For all these
reasons it is necessary to have three options instead of two, this
third option will act as a “just in case-relationship”. Of course
you need to keep the three of them with the same intensity, then to
lose one, will not be so painful to our integrity.
Having that third
option, to lose one of the options will become something not too bad
because we still have two more options to compare, that way we will
not be exposed to the dangers it means to have just one.
To keep three
serious relationships through email, Viber and Skype is not easy.
What is possible at the beginning … becomes a hard work because it
is not easy to write to three different Russian girls and as you can
imagine, you cannot use the messages you already wrote, you will
have to write, chat, and expose yourself to visual chats with the
three girls. The stress it represents makes it easy to confuse the
name of one of the girls … even though you can think you are
protected by the language difference, a mistake of this kind can be
understand even by a Chinese girl …