Meeting with a
woman for the first time (Part three)
Personal meeting tips
months of correspondence, Skype and phone calls, weeks of planning, and
hours of traveling the big moment has lastly arrived. It’s time for you
to meet your woman. Here’s how you can impress your potential future
You should always look your best: First and
foremost you should make an effort to look at your very best as first
impressions is very important. You should always shave, shower and wear
nice and clean clothes before meeting the woman for the first time.
should always be polite as Ukrainian, Belarus and Russian women
appreciate it chivalry. Once you are on a date, you shouldn’t hesitate
to open doors for her, pull out her chair, help her out of a car or
bus. Russian girls value a lot chivalry on a date and your lady will
not be offended if you behaved like a real gentleman. If you want to
impress her, you can for example arrange a taxi to bring her.
should never pressure your woman. When you travel to meet a girl, your
main aim should be to become better acquainted with the woman and
decide if there is any future to your relationship. It should not be to
initiate intimacy as soon as possible. Believe it or not, some men wait
for women to jump into bed with them straight away after they arrival.
Remember intimacy is a possibility, it is not something you can expect
or order. You should always respect a woman's boundaries.
should always have realistic expectations about the future of the
relationship: While some visits might result in an immediate marriage,
but you should not automatically expect this. A first meeting is a
precious chance for you to get to know your woman and to mutually
decide on the future of your relationship. Occasionally a woman and a
fall in love at their first meeting, other times the chemistry
may not be there and the two may decide to end their relationship.
men blame the women when their visits don’t live up to the idealistic
model. Although this is an understandable reaction it is definitely not
a particularly fair one. If your date does not go as good as you had
hoped, it does not mean that the lady is dishonest or that she was not
serious about you. You should understand that she respects you enough
to be open and frank about her feelings towards you. Remember, life
long relationship should be built on sincerity and honesty.