for finding a wife on Russian dating websites
a man has become comfortable with the idea of seeking Russian women
online, he may begin looking for tips and advice about what to do next.
a man can do to go on to have a successful dating experience? Many men
become terrified by the process of online dating and quit even before
they have given it a chance. Despite being around for several years,
the Russian (Ukrainian and Belarus) dating industry is a mystery to
Below are some common but unrealistic expectations for men interested in finding Russian brides and foreign brides in general.
Men can’t buy Russian women
some men believe that paying membership fees to a dating service means
they are guaranteed to find a wife. Some even go so far as to claim
that a dating site is a scam if they pay to communicate with girls but
are unable to find a life partner. This is definitely a wrong belief.
reality is that a man is not entitled to a Ukrainian or Russian bride
because he is a paid member of a dating agency/site. The service
charges these agencies ask for go toward providing communication means
(email addresses, phone numbers, Skype names, postal addresses. etc)
women and men who would otherwise never meet. This money is certainly
not a deposit or down payment on securing a future wife or a bride.
Remember there are no guarantees when it comes to finding love even if
membership fees are involved.
Ukrainian and Russian girls are not desperate
men believe by mistake that Ukrainian, Belarus and
desperate to escape the poverty of their countries and will marry any
man who has a foreign passport. Keep in mind that life has very much
improved in Russia, Ukraine and Belarus since the fall of the Soviet
Union and the vast majority of girls are not desperate and poor to
change their entire lives to marry any man.
Also some men
suppose that women on Russian or Ukrainian dating sites should cater to
men wants as they (the men) pay to use the service and the women do
not. This is unrealistic belief. If you joined a Russian dating site,
you should never expect a woman to respond positively to your email,
agree immediately to visit you, etc. only because it is what you wants
her to do.
Send or request explicit things
it may seem clear, a man should never send explicit things to a woman
without her permission, nor should he ask for explicit things
from her. The focus of serious and legitimate Russian dating sites is
to ease love matches between their members not to act as a doorway for
adult communication. Remember you always have to keep it clean unless
you have a woman’s permission to do otherwise.
Not behaving like a gentleman
women appreciate men who behave like real gentlemen. In a survey
organized by our agency, Russian ladies pointed out respect and good
manners as two qualities they’d most like to find in a man.
Unfortunately some men forget their manners when communicating and
email exchange with women and definitely this in most cases can prevent
a man from finding his future wife online.
Russian women know
that men pay to use dating websites. Though that doesn’t mean it’s all
right for men to complain about the costs. Remember women have no
control over the costs and many feel uncomfortable when would-be
suitors declare their dissatisfaction and frustrations. Worse, when men
complain about courtship costs it often seems that they are bitter or
regretful about the money they have spent or that they don't think the
woman is worth the effort and expense.
Of course this may not be
the man’s aim, but it is often the way the message is perceived. To
avoid hurt misunderstandings and feelings, men should always refrain
from talking about the costs of dating agencies with women they meet on
If a man wants to build a stable relationship
with a Russian woman, he should try to keep a stable stream of
communication. A man must remain in touch with a woman if he wants a
promising relationship to develop.
There are plenty of things to
talk about, the relationship is exciting, and the novelty of courting
Ukrainian and Russian women has not yet worn off. As time passes,
however, a man might begin to send less and less emails or stop calling
the lady frequently. Though this reaction is common, men who are
serious about starting serious and meaningful relationships should
always try to keep in touch with women they want to know better. Often,
promising relationships be unsuccessful or fail because one party or
the other stops communicating.
Some men are too demanding when
pursuing Russian or Ukrainian girls. These aggressive men imagine and
expect every woman they correspond with to respond immediately and
positively to all of their emails. In addition, some of these men can
insult women who are not interested and even make unfounded scammer
accusations. Make an effort to be respectful and polite and you are
sure to improve your chances for finding the Russian bride.
the rules on Russian dating mirror those of the real world. The
well-mannered and polite man will definitely get the woman. The pushy
and arrogant man will be ignored.
Finally you should understand
that a woman may misunderstand you too, so always be patient when
things mix-up. Remember understanding and communication are critical to
maintaining a stable relationship that will lead to marriage.