successfully court a woman online
Have a good profile
man's profile is the basic thing a woman sees, so it’s important that
men on dating websites try to make the best personal advertisement
possible. While it can take time and effort, the results are surely
Current photos are a must
a male is truly looking for romance and love on a dating website, it’s
crucial that he post new photos of himself. Recent photos are
necessary, not ones taken 15 years ago. In addition, photos of
models or famous actors are obviously not right. The goal for
most men after all, is to meet an honest woman to marry. Inaccurate
photographs or photographs that are blatant lies undermine this attempt
and start new relationships off with a falsity.
men believe photos and looks are not important to adult females, but in
fact women are drawn to ads with nice photos and men who care enough
about the dating process to make a great first impression.
Here are a few indicators to help men choose the best images for their personal advertisements:
Post at least one photo
only thing worse than posting inaccurate or bad quality photos is not
posting a photo at all. Search has shown that personal ads with no
images get the least amount of attention on dating and marriage
websites, so if a man wants to have a good and successful dating
experience he should definitely post at least one photo.
Tell a story
are an fabulous way for men to share the story of their lives. This is
peculiarly actual on foreign dating sites where some information can
get lost in translation. Instead of posting a simple head shot, men
should think of sharing photos that showcase the things and people that
are important to them. Photos of family, friends, hobbies, pets, etc,
are just a few examples. Such pictures not only make a man seem
genuine, honest and warm, the traits that women definitely admire, but
also help him stand out in a crowd.
A good profile photo is very
important in attracting the interest of women. Just as men are
interested in the women's photos, the women want to see what the men
contacting them look like. Men who want to boost and improve their
chances of finding love on a matchmaking/dating site should only post
profile photos that are of good quality and recent. Beautiful and
interesting photographs that tell the story of a man’s life are also a
great way to catch a lady’s interest and start a relationship with her.
Avoid sending low-quality photos
of the most ordinary mistakes men make when it comes to personal
advertisement pics is selecting images with a bad quality (generally
taken by smart phones). Bad quality photos are those that are out of
focus (blurry), poorly framed, etc. If a woman cannot acquire a clear
idea of what a man really looks like after seeing his picture then he
should scrap the photo and start once again. Some men deliberately post
blurry photographs in an attempt to look mysterious and intriguing, but
more often than not a woman will wonder if this man is too lazy to find
a good picture or he is trying to hide something. Remember good photos
are a must when sending email to the ladies.
A messy appearance is a turn off
and dirty men seldom attract women. Actually a dirty appearance is one
of the main turn offs for women. If a adult male wishes to attract a
woman on a dating site he should send her photos in which he appears
tidy and clean. Stained or wrinkled clothing, unkempt beards or
goatees, and rumpled hair are unflattering and may make women wonder if
a man is so lazy to take care of his appearance.
Personal advertisement content
making an ad, it’s essential that a man take care with what he writes
and how he expresses himself. Here are some tips to help men create ads
that will help them eceive positive answers from women.
it’s crucial that a man fully complete his profile, there is such a
thing as writing too much. Personal advertisements are a way for men to
give women a tempting look into their lives and entice the women into
wanting to know more. Writing too much can overcome women looking for
love and marriage on dating sites, particularly those who are not
native English speakers. Profiles that are complete and at the same
time brief do well.
though the women for example on Russian or Ukrainian marriage sites are
not native English speakers, men should still make an effort to write
complete sentences, use proper grammar, correct punctuation and avoid
unclear abbreviations. The women and their translation software may not
understand that (u r nice) means (you are nice). Clarity is always best
when it comes to dating foreign girls.
like men who are optimistic and confident. In fact, in a recent study
Ukrainian, Belarus and Russian women listed these qualities as two of
their largest turn ons. Thus, men should take big care with their ads
to avoid coming across as negative. Statements like “scammers,
cheaters, liars” or “I have doubt that this Russian dating thing will
work for me” are best left unsaid. Instead men should focus on
qualities they do want in a woman and show confidence in the dating
should always take the time to complete, really complete, the
“Autobiography or About Me” and “Seeks Partner or Looking For” sections
of their profiles. Space words like “I don’t know what to say” and “Ask
me later” are not appropriate for a good text. Sure, sometimes these
fields can be hard to fill but if a man neglects to fill them out he
risks coming across as insincere or lazy. Women typically respond
much better to men who honestly describe themselves and thoroughly
complete their ads than to other ones.
Always be optimistic
would you rather talk with? A woman who says “I doubt this dating thing
will work for me” or the girl who says “I saw your ad and I am really
affected, Let’s email exchange”? If the first impression a man makes is
that he’s a negative individual who isn’t very eager about meeting
someone new, he’s likely to scare away women who might otherwise have
liked him very much. Men who are confident, positive and excited about
Internet dating are the best future partners.
Keep it light
usual for most men to tell women about the bad experience they had with
their past relationships, the cost of a dating agency, scammers stories
or how it is difficult to find a bride and a future wife online. Men
should definitely should avoid these topics, at least at first
communication. It’s best if a man starts his first communication or
emails by describing his interests, learn about the woman's interests
and goals, and determine if she is a potential life partner. All the
other stuff can come later.
Have a few conversation topics in mind
helpful if a man has some subjects and topics in mind before talking to
a woman over the phone. This can help him maintain a firm stream of
communication and avoid wasting time on idle small talk. School, music,
work and a woman's city are all interesting topics that have the
potential to develop into meaningful and good conversations. Remember,
every woman is unique so a man may have to try a few subjects before
finding one that she is passionate about.
some men think that the fees they pay a marriage or a dating service
authorize them to have certain rights. These men feel that the women
are obligated to answer emails on demand, answers only them, and be
willing to discuss any subject the man likes, including sex. In
essence, some men treat women from certain countries like Ukraine and
Russia like employees of an adult chat room. This behavior is not only
impolite and disrespectful, but is almost certain to offend a woman and
drive her immediately away.